Personal Blog - Seiryu
Teaching Your Submissive to Finish on Your Command: BDSM Mastery
Hey everyone! Today I want to share with you an intense and exciting technique that can become a powerful tool in your BDSM play: orgasm control. This method is perfect for those who love the dynamics of dominance and submission and want to push their boundaries further. Orgasm on command is an incredibly hot and …
Cultivating Confidence in BDSM: A Dominant’s Responsibility
One golden rule I follow is this: I don’t tolerate self-deprecation, whether in myself or others. It’s important to differentiate between bad days—which we all have—and habitual disrespect for oneself. When someone continuously puts themselves down, it undermines not only their self-worth but also the social expectations and trust of those around them, including their …
Understanding Power Play: A Practical Guide to Feminine Punishment
Over my five years in the BDSM lifestyle, I’ve come to understand that the subject of punishment often sparks curiosity, debate, and, sometimes, misunderstanding. Discipline, when consensual and executed responsibly, is a profound way to build trust and connection in BDSM dynamics. Let’s delve into how punishment can be applied as a constructive tool in …
Punishment in BDSM: The Art of Discipline and Control
Hey, folks! Today, I want to talk about a topic that often sparks debates in BDSM circles—punishment. Having been in the BDSM scene for over five years, I’ve learned a lot about discipline from both sides of the leash. As someone who loves exploring the power dynamics in BDSM, I think it’s crucial to understand …
The Art of Belt Spanking in BDSM: Tips and Techniques
Who doesn’t love the satisfying snap of a leather belt during a BDSM session? For some, it’s a tool for discipline. For others, it’s a source of pure pleasure. Regardless of the reason, a belt is a versatile and accessible tool in the BDSM world. Here’s what you need to know about its use, care, …
How to Use Cold and Ice for Sensual BDSM Experiences
When it comes to BDSM, introducing sensory elements like ice and water can open up a whole new world of sensations. While cold might not be everyone’s favorite thing in daily life—most people don’t love the thought of icy hands or snow on bare skin—it has incredible potential for creating intense, memorable experiences. Whether you’re …
BDSM Tickling: A Guide to Sensory Play and Fetish Exploration
When we think of tickling, most of us recall playful childhood moments or teasing exchanges with friends. However, in the world of BDSM, tickling—commonly referred to as “tickling fetish” or “tickling torture”—takes on an entirely different and highly erotic dimension. Over the years, I’ve explored this fascinating kink, and it has become a unique tool …
The Balance of Trust and Financial Responsibility in BDSM
One question seems to pop up frequently in discussions about D/s dynamics: how much financial responsibility does a Dominant bear in a BDSM relationship? To answer this, we need to clarify the concept of responsibility in this context. Who or what is the Dominant accountable to? Is it society with its endless opinions? The BDSM …
True Dominance: Myths, Realities, and Reflections
When I started exploring the psychology of BDSM, I stumbled upon a recurring idea: a “true Dominant” never chases after women. It’s often said that submissives are supposed to pursue the Dominant, not the other way around. This notion puzzled me. BDSM isn’t some sort of “game of tag.” Yet, there seems to be this …
The Art of Submission: Behaviors of a Female Slave in BDSM
One of the most fascinating aspects of BDSM is the dynamic between a dominant and a submissive, especially within the context of D/s (Dominance and submission) relationships. In this article, I’ll share insights into the behavior of a female slave, based on both my experience and conversations with others in the BDSM community. This guide …
7 Intense Ways to Push Boundaries in BDSM Relationships
When it comes to exploring the emotional side of BDSM, one of the most intense dynamics is pushing a submissive to tears. This isn’t about cruelty or violence—it’s about diving deep into the psychological aspects of domination. For many dominants, the process of evoking such a raw, emotional response becomes an exhilarating and deeply personal …
Essential Tips for New Dominants in BDSM
Entering the world of BDSM can feel both exhilarating and overwhelming. If you’re stepping into the role of a Dominant, it’s normal to have questions and even doubts. As someone with years of experience in this space, I’ve learned that effective dominance is about more than just control—it’s about mutual respect, trust, and understanding your …
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