Imagine the profile of Cleopatra, stamped on ancient coins. Is it true she has an uncomfortably long nose and isn’t particularly beautiful? Yet how many men has she driven mad, stripping them of their dignity and honor! But notice: her questionable appearance and undeniable intelligence had nothing to do with it. Cleopatra primarily took pleasure with her lips—quite literally—being recognized as the unrivaled expert in fellatio. Second in history was Eva Perón. Want to discuss this?
Not a Luxury, But a Way of Life
Since Zavierya (Zavierya Hollander, an American woman who literally knows everything about sex. The experience gained through rich practice has been carefully structured into a coherent theory, which she teaches to audiences of all ages, religions, and, most importantly, various levels of knowledge on the topic) delivered her first lecture on oral sex, several decades have passed. Nonetheless, the topic remains relevant. Thankfully, today the attitude towards this delicate subject has almost lost its scandalous and forbidden spirit. Everyone generally enjoys discussing the deliciousness and benefits of this activity. So, let’s begin in order.
Let’s agree right away: when we talk about oral sex today, we mean only fellatio. We will discuss how to encourage a man to give you maximum pleasure in this way separately.
The first thing you need to remember, dear ladies: for a normal average man, there is no such thing as too much oral sex. No matter what your “experienced” friends or even the men themselves tell you, remember this: THEY are willing to endure it in absolutely unlimited quantities. To check the veracity of Zavierya’s words, I conducted a small survey among men aged 20 to 50, both married and single. All were unanimous, and the responses can be summarized in one phrase: as often as every hour, as long as the lady doesn’t get tired! Do you now realize the importance of this “branch” of sexual life? Masterfully wield your lips and tongue, and all your character flaws, as well as your complete unwillingness to prepare a three-course dinner for your beloved, will simply go unnoticed… Let’s get to the specifics.
Open Your Mouth
As Zavierya claims, women have two specific reasons for rejecting fellatio.
- Deep oral penetration can induce a gag reflex. This is true; it happens. You will need to practice a bit. Massage the base of your tongue near the tonsils several times a day with your fingertips. Alternate this exercise with practical sessions using a medium-sized banana. In a week, you will be ready to “receive” live flesh.
- The position of “head lower than the body” can lead to severe dizziness after 5-10 minutes. This problem is purely technical: choose the right position. Lie on your back (keeping your throat and mouth in a straight line), while the man “kneels” over you and slowly begins thrusting. To avoid negative sensations, coordinate your breathing with his movements (inhale when he enters, exhale when he exits). This position also has an added positive effect: as he watches your actions, the man experiences both physical and psychological arousal.
Set Your Lips and Tongue
According to Zavierya, no two men enjoy the same pattern of oral sex. Therefore, you must approach this process creatively, using a method of “trial and error” to find out what he wants today. However, you need to master the technique in principle. So, fellatio consists of:
- Sliding your tightly pursed lips up and down the length of the penis, imitating its movement inside the vagina. This isn’t difficult; you can practice again on a banana.
- Rapid tongue vibrations, frequently changing direction and paying special attention to the head and frenulum, which are the most sensitive parts of the male anatomy, rich in nerve endings. Ideally, you should learn to develop a virtuoso speed with your tongue: depending on your partner’s desires, you can always slow it down. Virtuosity is achieved solely through practice on a live “subject.” But trust me, any man will gladly participate in your training! Moreover, it’s entirely unnecessary to involve him in the details of the educational process.
- A deep sense of respect not only for the penis itself but also for the scrotum, testicles, and the highly erogenous zone between the testicles and the anus. With proper stimulation, this area can even lead to an independent orgasm for the man. Here’s a practical tip: to achieve mutual pleasure, it’s a good idea to teach your partner to regularly use a razor. If he learns to shave his genitals with the same care he takes with his face, both of you will benefit. He will gain a world of previously unknown sensations (the direct contact of your lips and tongue with the sensitive skin of his “delicate areas”). And you will undoubtedly avoid the often uncomfortable situation during fellatio when (pardon the detail) hair ends up in your mouth. By the way, as Zavierya correctly states, shaving your partner’s genitals can serve as an excellent prelude to a passionate sexual act! After all, this procedure can and should be done together, bringing the man to a state of full erection, during which his testicles harden, pulling up, and the razor glides over them as smoothly as over cheekbones! Smoothly shaved genitals are just begging to be kissed, with your tongue and lips gently caressing the “playing field” free of excess vegetation.
Don’t Forget About Them
When engaging in oral sex, never forget about your hands and teeth. The former is one of the components of desired success. The latter is a contentious issue.