- Find a Comfortable Position
On average, men reach orgasm in three to five minutes, so you don’t need to worry too much about comfort. However, it’s still worth finding a position that both of you enjoy. Generally, it’s easier for a woman to kneel (using a pillow or blanket under her knees if you’re on the floor). The partner can either stand or sit at the edge of the bed to lean back comfortably. An additional advantage of this position is that it offers a good view for the man. To make the experience even more exciting, move closer to a mirror. You can both enjoy the view! - Start Off Right
Most men I’ve talked to don’t like long foreplay. Some even say it makes them feel awkward or ticklish. Of course, you can warm him up before the blowjob, but do it quickly. Try teasing him with your tongue or fingers through his underwear, or touch his penis while asking what he would like. If he’s not fully ready when you take off his clothes, seize the moment. Take his entire member in your mouth and tease him with your tongue until he gets hard (this may be the only chance you have for such a maneuver, so enjoy it!). After he’s erect, slowly lick his penis from the base to the tip. - Master Basic Technique
After foreplay comes the main event, right? First, you need to make his penis wet. For this, slide your mouth up and down his member a few times, pressing your tongue tightly against it. Try to gather and use as much saliva as possible, and don’t worry if it drips messily—this can actually enhance the experience. But watch out for your teeth; they shouldn’t be involved in this process! Now that you’re prepared, start using your hand along with your mouth. Most people’s mouths aren’t big enough to fit an average-sized penis, so your hand will be your best friend. The optimal approach is to use your hand to stimulate the shaft of the penis while your mouth focuses on the tip. Keep in mind that the shaft isn’t as sensitive as other intimate male areas, so don’t be afraid to grip it firmly. The tip, on the other hand, is very sensitive, so a warm, wet mouth is perfect for it. Now for the technique: grip the penis firmly in your hand, bring your lips close to the tip, and imagine that these two parts of your body are connected. Then, begin to move up and down the shaft for several minutes. This is a standard move that you can return to throughout the blowjob. - Pay Attention to the Balls
The scrotum is often neglected, which is unfair. Don’t make this mistake. Once you’re in a rhythm with the basic technique, move on to the next step. Use your free hand to grasp his balls. Remember: they are sensitive, so you need to find the right amount of pressure. Light pressure will just tickle, while too much can cause pain. Tease the scrotum with your fingers while continuing to give the blowjob. Gently pinch the skin between the balls with your thumb and index finger and try to move your fingers from the base of the penis down. Then, use your mouth to tease this area while continuing to stimulate the penis with your hand. Lick the balls, take them into your mouth, and run your tongue between them from the back of the scrotum to the front. - Don’t Forget the Prostate
The most commonly overlooked areas are, of course, the anus and prostate. For many heterosexual men, stimulation in these areas is strictly taboo, which is a shame! However, before venturing into this sacred territory, get explicit permission from your partner. If he’s not up for anal play, try stimulating his perineum instead. This area responds well to pressure—you can use your knuckles for this. If your partner is ready for anal play, the first thing you’ll need is a silicone lubricant. Apply it to your index finger and gently probe the anal opening. A light push is enough to gain entry. If he starts to thrust his hips towards your hand, slowly push your finger deeper. You only need to go a few centimeters inside, then gently move your finger back and forth. Once you’ve mastered this technique, try reaching the golden blowjob standard: one finger in the anus while the other fingers stimulate the balls, and your other hand and mouth focus on the penis. Instant orgasm guaranteed! - Explore Other Techniques
Once you’re comfortable with the basic technique, start experimenting. Different men like different things—find out what excites your partner. Here are a few examples:- Lick the base of the penis while continuing to stimulate the shaft and tip with your hand.
- Pay special attention to the frenulum—this area is particularly sensitive for many men. Tease it with the tip of your tongue, moving it up and down and side to side, or try sucking on it.
- Continue to stimulate the penis with your hand while only using your lips on the tip.
- Add circular motions with your hand to the basic technique.
- Gently tap the penis with your tongue to give your jaw a little break.
- For a longer break, use your lips, face, and breasts (you can just rub them against the penis).
- Alternatively, alternate between manual and oral stimulation.
- Don’t feel pressured to use all the techniques at once. Start with a couple and ask your partner what he enjoyed, or pay attention to his reactions.
- Finish Gracefully
The eternal debate: to swallow or not to swallow? What can I say here? If you truly can’t stand the taste of sperm, keep tissues handy next to the bed to discreetly dispose of it. Another option is to let the sperm drip out onto the penis as you pull it from your mouth. But think carefully about this again. How would you feel if your partner ran off to brush his teeth immediately after oral sex? Sure, genital fluids aren’t grandma’s compote, but we’re talking about a quick gulp of a couple of teaspoons. And tastes do change… - Learn to Love Blowjobs
The key takeaway from this article is that enthusiasm makes for an incredible blowjob. There’s nothing better for your partner than knowing you enjoy his member. An excellent way to express this enthusiasm is to initiate a blowjob. Surprise your man when he just wakes up or walks into the house. Tell him you want to please him while watching a cool series or having dinner at a restaurant. Maintain this mood throughout the process. Moan, make eye contact, and smile. Pull the penis from your mouth and rub it against your body. Tell him how good it feels. You’ll become a blowjob guru when you genuinely love it. And it’s really quite simple: it’s so exciting to completely control someone else’s pleasure.
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