69
There are countless techniques for oral sex, with the “69” position being the most popular method for mutual fellatio. Many people may not even know what the name refers to (although in St. Petersburg, there’s even a club named after it!).
To perform it, there are two main partner positions. First, you can lie on your sides, in a “valet” position (with your heads at each other’s feet). Second, one partner can lie on their back while the other kneels above their head.
The technique of giving oral sex in the 69 position is not different from one-sided fellatio; the only difference is that partners pleasure each other simultaneously. It’s crucial to act “in unison,” meaning you should be in sync, always mindful of your partner’s pleasure.
With a little practice, you will discover that giving pleasure during oral sex can be just as enjoyable as receiving it. The key is that both partners should find it pleasurable. If your partner isn’t interested in oral sex and prefers to “give,” attempting a “69” may disrupt your relationship.
71
This position mirrors the “69,” with the only difference being that you both stimulate each other’s anal openings with your index fingers, creating a unique spectrum of sensations.
The name of this position is easy to decipher: 69 plus one (finger) plus another (finger). Feel free to experiment and try out different numbers, even going as far as eighty-nine (though using your legs might be a challenge!).
BUTTERFLY FLIGHT
Kneel before your partner. In this position, it’s easier to control what’s in your mouth, and your hands remain free to caress your partner.
Exhale to create a vacuum in your mouth, then gently take him in, firmly wrapping your lips around him. Don’t try to swallow him whole; you need some room for your tongue to maneuver! Now, lightly tease the tip with your tongue.
After a while, start moving your lips up and down along the shaft, but stop just short of the glans during upward movements. Your main goal is to keep the tip of your tongue constantly in contact with the head of his penis, teasing him with fluttering and gliding motions.
Trust me, this will drive your partner wild! After a few minutes, you can transition to another technique.
INFINITY
Once you’ve mastered creating a vacuum in your mouth and are accustomed to the length of his penis, try this technique for guaranteed pleasure!
Tightly squeeze your lips around the shaft and slowly try to go down to the base, touching your nose to his pubic hair. Now, imagine drawing the infinity symbol (“the eight lying on its side”) on his pubic area, approximately 8-10 cm in size. Slowly rise up your lips to the head of his penis, continuing to draw the “infinity” symbol, then descend back down, ensuring your lips stay snug against him.
CIRCLE
Take the interesting organ into your mouth but don’t grip it with your lips. Begin to make circular motions with your head. The penis will touch various spots in your mouth due to your circular movements. Be careful to avoid your teeth!
This exercise is best performed while kneeling over your partner, who lies on their back. Rotate both clockwise and counterclockwise, slowly and attentively.
AROUND THE WORLD
This technique is named for the kisses and oral caresses that travel across the entire body. The most sensitive areas include the “passion stripe” (the hairy strip from the navel to the pubic bone) and the “groin groove” (between the thigh and the scrotum). Don’t forget that many men have very sensitive nipples!
Feel free to experiment boldly, exploring every corner of his body with your tongue. Alternate your actions: sometimes create wet trails, other times tease with light touches.