Hey everyone! Today I want to share with you an intense and exciting technique that can become a powerful tool in your BDSM play: orgasm control. This method is perfect for those who love the dynamics of dominance and submission and want to push their boundaries further.

Orgasm on command is an incredibly hot and powerful way to show your submissive that you’re in charge. Imagine being able to make them climax whenever you choose, forcing them to lose control—yet all within the limits of your command. It’s not just about control; it’s a display of your power and authority.

When you’re regularly active with a partner, you start to sense when they’re about to reach their climax. This technique allows you to demonstrate to your submissive that it’s you who has granted them permission to finish. But, to make sure they understand it’s not by accident, you’ll need to train them in orgasm control.

Start by waiting until they’re right on the edge, then begin the countdown: “10… 9…”. Between each number, pause for anywhere from 5 to 20 seconds. This gives your submissive time to feel their arousal rise while also losing control. The pauses are your tool to stretch the moment and heighten anticipation before they’re given permission to finish.

Believe me, with practice, your submissive will learn when to slow down and when to intensify their efforts to reach orgasm. This technique takes time and patience, but once you see how much more they submit to your control, you’ll understand why it’s so powerful. Just remember, this isn’t about just giving commands; it’s a key tool to reinforce your dynamic and grow your relationship.