2024-11-03

The Joys of Oral Sex

Oral sex is one of the greatest pleasures a woman can provide to her intimate partner. Even if he hasn’t explicitly asked for it, rest assured that he is likely dreaming about it. It’s important to recognize that different areas of the male penis have varying sensitivities to stimulation from lips and tongue. The most sensitive spot is the glans, so this is typically where you should focus your attention during oral sex. You can easily bring your partner to orgasm by gently caressing this part with your tongue. The shaft of the penis is less sensitive, so stimulation there—whether oral or manual—may not provide significant pleasure.

Many women mistakenly believe that a firm grip on the penis with vigorous up-and-down movements is the way to maximize pleasure for a man. While this may look exciting, it unfortunately does not sufficiently stimulate the glans, as the main pressure is applied to the less sensitive shaft. The testicles (or whatever you prefer to call them) are quite sensitive to pain and are often overlooked as objects of erotic stimulation, which is a mistake. Paying more attention to the testicles can enhance your erotic play.

There are other areas of a man’s body that respond well to oral stimulation. Many men are sensitive in the chest and nipple area, in the perineum, etc.

It’s disheartening to see how many women don’t know how to properly arouse a penis or bring it to readiness. A common misconception is that a hard grip and vigorous massaging of the penis up and down qualifies one as an expert in oral sex. This is not the case. Start with gentle, cautious touches with your lips and tongue to explore the surface of your partner’s penis and gauge his reactions to identify the most sensitive spots.

Try this: Take your partner’s penis in one hand and gently lick the entire underside from base to tip. When you reach the glans, softly and gently take it into your mouth. By observing his arousal, you can discover which part is most sensitive and pleasurable for him. Once you’ve identified these areas, pay attention to the signs that indicate he is nearing orgasm. This knowledge is crucial, as it allows you to control the duration of your intimate play and avoid premature ejaculation. Typical signs of approaching orgasm include the glans swelling slightly, tightening of the thighs, and the appearance of drops of clear fluid at the tip. When these occur, the best might happen any moment.

The optimal position for oral sex (being down between his legs, lying sideways, or in a 69 position) depends on your partner’s sensitivity, as well as the structure and flexibility of your lips, tongue, and teeth. Experiment with different techniques to determine the best options for your pair.

Take your partner’s hard penis into your mouth, but do not squeeze your lips around the shaft. Begin making circular movements with your head. The penis will move freely, touching various internal surfaces of your mouth. Gently pull it out while lightly grazing it with your teeth. This exercise is easier to do while kneeling in front of him or when he is lying down with your head positioned directly above his member. Make circular motions both clockwise and counterclockwise. This play provides immense pleasure to the man and can last for a considerable time.

While kneeling in front of your partner, lift his erect penis so that you can reach his testicles with your mouth. Use slow, strong movements of your tongue to massage the perineum under the scrotum, the testicles themselves, and gently slide your tongue over them, licking the entire penis all the way to the top. You can use your hands to assist. This technique resembles licking an ice cream. Few men can withstand such prolonged stimulation without reaching a powerful orgasm. Alternatively, you can combine linear tongue movements with a figure-eight pattern.

The most common technique is to take your partner’s penis into your mouth without going too deep. We will later discuss deep-throating. Locate the head of his penis with your tongue. Lick the frenulum (the spot where the skin ends and the glans begins) once. Free the penis and repeat everything from the start, wrapping your hand around the shaft. You can spice up this play by moving your head side to side while your wet lips envelop the frenulum. Additional pleasure can be added by gently stimulating the penis with your hand in an up-and-down motion. Alternating several gentle, shallow grabs with a rare but strong and deep grip can enhance the experience.

In addition to the previous technique, there is one that intensifies the orgasm. If you block the sperm canal at the base of the penis with your finger while massaging the shaft with your lips and hand, mimicking the spasms characteristic of ejaculation, you can prolong your partner’s pleasure and bring him to a state of sweet exhaustion. When you finally allow the sperm to escape, the ejaculation will be unusually prolonged and intense. It’s incredible how such a simple technique can multiply the pleasure for a man.

For those just starting to practice oral sex, it’s important to keep some things in mind. At the moment of a man’s orgasm, he often tries to thrust his penis deeper. However, the average depth of the mouth is only about 7.5 to 9 cm, while the average European penis length ranges from 10 to 14 cm. The challenge is further complicated by the fact that the angle of the penis in relation to the throat and airways is 90 degrees during oral sex. Thus, right before your partner’s orgasm, it’s beneficial to tilt your head to one side, allowing his penis to fully enter without posing a danger to your airways.

Moreover, it is no secret that deep penetration can lead to certain physical reactions. To avoid these unpleasant issues, simply relax your throat and do not try to tense it during deep penetration. Additionally, you can control the depth by tightly wrapping your lips around the penis in a comfortable position and stimulating it solely with your tongue while taking a moment to breathe. The moment of orgasm is the only time during the entire oral session when your partner’s activity might exceed yours, as he will begin to mimic movements typical of regular intercourse, pushing his penis deeper each time. This can be a very intense sexual experience, especially for newcomers.

One more warning: do not leave your partner immediately after ejaculation. This will disrupt his pleasure. If swallowing the ejaculate is psychologically uncomfortable for you, simply spit it into a prepared tissue or towel, but do not rush to the bathroom. However, don’t forget that semen can serve as an excellent skin treatment. With mutual care and attention, you and your partner will soon learn to avoid possible unpleasant situations and maximize mutual pleasure from oral sex.

Now, let’s return our focus to your partner’s testicles. Given their high sensitivity to pain, special trust is required between partners to incorporate them into active sexual play. Start with gently licking the scrotum. As your partner becomes aroused, you can play with the nipples on his chest, stimulating the penis closer to the testicles. You might also gently roll his testicles deeper into the perineum, which many men enjoy. When there is complete trust, you can take both testicles into your mouth after wetting the scrotum with your tongue to moisten the pubic hair. Stuck hairs will not impede your tongue from playing with the testicles. The appendages of your partner’s testicles can sometimes serve as a detector for hidden infections such as chlamydia. If they appear abnormally enlarged and painful upon contact, it’s a warning sign and a clear reminder to consider protection.

This is a very simple technique for lovemaking, and if you are already familiar with the anatomy of the penis, you can easily master it. Wet your lips, wrap them around the head of the penis, and begin to gently rotate it along the frenulum from side to side. This will not require any special skills or talents, as this is the most sensitive area of the penis. Stimulating it can lead to a quick and intense orgasm. This technique is usually recommended for swiftly restoring your partner’s readiness after intercourse.

1699097254 Kavabunga Org P Porno Devushka Medlenno Razdevaetsya Porno 54

New Kamasutra: Oral Sex

Imagine the profile of Cleopatra, stamped on ancient coins. Is it true she has an uncomfortably long nose and isn’t particularly beautiful? Yet how many men has she driven mad, stripping them of their dignity and honor! But notice: her questionable appearance and undeniable intelligence had nothing to do with it. Cleopatra primarily took pleasure with her lips—quite literally—being recognized as the unrivaled expert in fellatio. Second in history was Eva Perón. Want to discuss this?

Not a Luxury, But a Way of Life

Since Zavierya (Zavierya Hollander, an American woman who literally knows everything about sex. The experience gained through rich practice has been carefully structured into a coherent theory, which she teaches to audiences of all ages, religions, and, most importantly, various levels of knowledge on the topic) delivered her first lecture on oral sex, several decades have passed. Nonetheless, the topic remains relevant. Thankfully, today the attitude towards this delicate subject has almost lost its scandalous and forbidden spirit. Everyone generally enjoys discussing the deliciousness and benefits of this activity. So, let’s begin in order.

Let’s agree right away: when we talk about oral sex today, we mean only fellatio. We will discuss how to encourage a man to give you maximum pleasure in this way separately.

The first thing you need to remember, dear ladies: for a normal average man, there is no such thing as too much oral sex. No matter what your “experienced” friends or even the men themselves tell you, remember this: THEY are willing to endure it in absolutely unlimited quantities. To check the veracity of Zavierya’s words, I conducted a small survey among men aged 20 to 50, both married and single. All were unanimous, and the responses can be summarized in one phrase: as often as every hour, as long as the lady doesn’t get tired! Do you now realize the importance of this “branch” of sexual life? Masterfully wield your lips and tongue, and all your character flaws, as well as your complete unwillingness to prepare a three-course dinner for your beloved, will simply go unnoticed… Let’s get to the specifics.

Open Your Mouth

As Zavierya claims, women have two specific reasons for rejecting fellatio.

Deep oral penetration can induce a gag reflex. This is true; it happens. You will need to practice a bit. Massage the base of your tongue near the tonsils several times a day with your fingertips. Alternate this exercise with practical sessions using a medium-sized banana. In a week, you will be ready to “receive” live flesh.
The position of “head lower than the body” can lead to severe dizziness after 5-10 minutes. This problem is purely technical: choose the right position. Lie on your back (keeping your throat and mouth in a straight line), while the man “kneels” over you and slowly begins thrusting. To avoid negative sensations, coordinate your breathing with his movements (inhale when he enters, exhale when he exits). This position also has an added positive effect: as he watches your actions, the man experiences both physical and psychological arousal.

Set Your Lips and Tongue

According to Zavierya, no two men enjoy the same pattern of oral sex. Therefore, you must approach this process creatively, using a method of “trial and error” to find out what he wants today. However, you need to master the technique in principle. So, fellatio consists of:

Sliding your tightly pursed lips up and down the length of the penis, imitating its movement inside the vagina. This isn’t difficult; you can practice again on a banana.
Rapid tongue vibrations, frequently changing direction and paying special attention to the head and frenulum, which are the most sensitive parts of the male anatomy, rich in nerve endings. Ideally, you should learn to develop a virtuoso speed with your tongue: depending on your partner’s desires, you can always slow it down. Virtuosity is achieved solely through practice on a live “subject.” But trust me, any man will gladly participate in your training! Moreover, it’s entirely unnecessary to involve him in the details of the educational process.
A deep sense of respect not only for the penis itself but also for the scrotum, testicles, and the highly erogenous zone between the testicles and the anus. With proper stimulation, this area can even lead to an independent orgasm for the man. Here’s a practical tip: to achieve mutual pleasure, it’s a good idea to teach your partner to regularly use a razor. If he learns to shave his genitals with the same care he takes with his face, both of you will benefit. He will gain a world of previously unknown sensations (the direct contact of your lips and tongue with the sensitive skin of his “delicate areas”). And you will undoubtedly avoid the often uncomfortable situation during fellatio when (pardon the detail) hair ends up in your mouth. By the way, as Zavierya correctly states, shaving your partner’s genitals can serve as an excellent prelude to a passionate sexual act! After all, this procedure can and should be done together, bringing the man to a state of full erection, during which his testicles harden, pulling up, and the razor glides over them as smoothly as over cheekbones! Smoothly shaved genitals are just begging to be kissed, with your tongue and lips gently caressing the “playing field” free of excess vegetation.

Don’t Forget About Them

When engaging in oral sex, never forget about your hands and teeth. The former is one of the components of desired success. The latter is a contentious issue.

An Introduction to Linguistics

Once upon a time, the notorious hooligan Joseph Raskin was visited by a Muse. I’m not sure what they were up to, but after her departure, the writer, now in a blissful mood, serenely declared, “Very euphonious words: Monet, minuet… and so on.”

The Origins of Linguistic Creativity

Some young individuals, brimming with youthful bravado, tend to believe that non-traditional sex involving a movable muscular organ in the oral cavity is an innovation exclusive to their generation. Not at all! Surviving remnants from the era of prehistoric materialism—such as shards, tablets, and papyrus—indicate that our ancient ancestors heartily welcomed this activity long before the new era. The most fervent and progressive even erected gigantic phallic idols across the land, and it seems they worshipped them in a peculiar manner, earning them the title of “pagans.”

In a word, the clever populace has long recognized that language serves purposes beyond mere conversation. It is not only for discerning tastes or creating sounds for speech. This organ has organically melded into a company of “colleagues” skilled in providing pleasure to themselves and others, earning a respectable third place after, naturally, the genitals (where would we be without them!) and skilled hands.

It’s in vain that suspicious husbands donned intricate chastity belts on their wives as they set off on distant voyages. “You can’t cover a foreign mouth with a cloth,” the sharp-tongued medieval enthusiasts of oral sex humorously quipped.

Exclusively for Club Members

However, attitudes toward oral sex have varied widely among different societal layers, ranging from outright aversion to enthusiastic veneration. Do you recall the classic line? A certain gentleman comes home unexpectedly and sees his beloved kneeling before another man… Our protagonist, completely blindsided, is “stunned, paralyzed by the unnaturalness of the scene.” (It’s possible, however, that the mise-en-scène would have been displeasing to him even if he had found his partner reclining classically with an unknown suitor.)

In summary, oral sex has always existed. But if we are speaking different languages, and you resolutely reject your own as a sexual instrument, feel free to stop reading now.

Extracting the Melody

Perhaps both of you secretly wouldn’t mind engaging in oral sex (by the way, in Georgian, it sounds quite romantic—“playing the little pipe”). But you may be uncertain about how your partner would react. (“She might think I’m promiscuous or have done this with someone before.”)

Rest assured, every man, without exception, views this opportunity very positively. Moreover, they wholeheartedly embrace the idea. However, they are also hesitant to propose it. (“What if she thinks I believe she’s promiscuous…” etc.—see the previous paragraph.)

To reassure you of men’s preferences, I conducted a survey spanning a broad age range—from 23 to 52 years old. “Do you enjoy when your partner stimulates you with her tongue?” I asked point-blank. “Yes!” each responded without hesitation, gazing at me with enthusiasm. “This is just a survey!”—“Oh…” “And why do you like it?” I pressed the excited respondents. “It feels nice.” — “Is that all?!” — “Isn’t that enough?”

Indeed, what am I saying?! Feeling nice is the most important thing. Why do we even lie down with our dear ones in bed (or on the couch, or on the floor) if not for mutual enjoyment?

I also had a candid discussion with women. What, exactly, is their interest in engaging in “linguistic creativity”?

It turned out that most want to bring pleasure to their loved ones. Many do this during their period so that their partner, feeling neglected, doesn’t embark on a three-day hiking trip. Nineteen-year-old Yulia said she initiates oral caresses to excite herself and then transitions to traditional sex. Twenty-five-year-old Olga shared that she performs this “purely pleasurable act” when she’s tired, wants to sleep, and doesn’t wish for prolonged mutual foreplay. In general, each has their own reasons, but the essence remains the same…

The Technology of Pagan Love

Let’s assume your partner is free from complexes, names things as they are, and after some gentle embraces asks, “How do you feel about oral sex?” Let’s assume you are a normal, enlightened woman and don’t start deflecting: “Oh no, we can’t make noise here, the neighbors will hear.” Let’s assume you understand each other, but… don’t know where to begin.

Here’s a valuable practical tip: if you are confident in the physical capabilities of your “great and mighty” and are ready to “work” it for a while, boldly lay your partner down on a horizontal surface. If you want to get this done quickly, sit on a couch or chair in front of your standing partner.

The thing is, when a man is lying down, he relaxes and instinctively seeks to prolong his pleasure. However, if he is standing (truth be told), he can’t relax, so his orgasm will come more quickly. (But keep in mind: you’ll have nothing to lean your elbows on, and your arm may tire!)

So, he’s lying down. It’s most convenient to sit between his legs. Remove any chain from your neck; otherwise, you’ll find yourself “bound by one chain.” To begin, gently grip the penis with your teeth. (Roughly as a dervish holds a dagger while dancing the lezginka.) Tenderly nibble and travel the entire length. Then firmly grasp it at the base with your hand. You should hold the penis tightly, like a flagpole in the wind—don’t worry, it won’t hurt your partner!

Now imagine that you have ice cream melting in your hands and you need to lick it off quickly from all sides. Then begin more vigorous movements with your tongue: suck and literally draw it into yourself with your lips. You can press the penis against your cheek or the roof of your mouth, simulating its friction within a vagina. Your tongue will undoubtedly tire, but don’t fret: as they say, the eyes are afraid, but hands do the work. Leaving the tip of the phallus resting on a flat tongue, vigorously move your hand up and down. The faster you do this, the sooner the release will come.

No matter how long your partner delays his pleasure, don’t worry: your earnest efforts won’t be in vain; the fountain of passion will surely erupt! Over time, you’ll build up your muscles (just kidding), gain skill, your jaw won’t go numb from the strain, and the day will soon come when your happy partner will exclaim, “Darling, you’re quite the conversationalist too!”

1663361901 24 Goliedevushki Pro P Erotika Nezhno Soset Svoemu Parnyu 31

10 Lessons on Oral Sex

Lesson 1

Oral sex is one of the greatest pleasures a woman can provide for her intimate partner. Even if your partner hasn’t openly asked for it, rest assured he is dreaming about it. It’s important to remember that different areas of the penis have varying sensitivities to stimulation from lips and tongue. The most sensitive spot is the glans, so this is where you should focus your attention during oral sex. You can easily bring your partner to orgasm with gentle touches of your tongue to this part of his penis. The shaft is less sensitive, so neither oral nor manual stimulation of this area will bring him significant pleasure. A common misconception among women is that a tight grip and vigorous up-and-down motions make them experts at oral sex. While this technique may look exciting, it unfortunately fails to provide adequate stimulation to the sensitive glans, as most of the action occurs on the less sensitive shaft. The testicles (or balls, as you prefer) are quite sensitive and often overlooked as erotic stimulation targets, which is a mistake. You can add a lot of pleasure to your erotic games by paying more attention to the testicles. However, we’ll discuss that later. Other areas of the male body that are sensitive to oral stimulation include the chest and nipples, as well as the perineum.

Lesson 2

It’s disheartening to see how many women don’t know how to properly arouse a penis and prepare it for action. A typical misconception is that a firm grip and vigorous stroking of the penis makes one a pro at oral sex. This is not the case. Start with gentle, careful touches of your lips and tongue to explore your partner’s penis and gauge his reactions to find the most sensitive spots. Try this: take his penis in one hand and gently lick the entire underside from base to tip. When you reach the glans, softly and tenderly envelop it with your mouth. You’ll see which part of his penis is most sensitive by observing his arousal. Once you identify these areas, pay attention to how you can recognize when your partner is close to orgasm. This is important so you can control the duration of your foreplay and prevent premature ejaculation. Common signs that he is nearing orgasm include the glans swelling slightly, the thighs tensing, and translucent drops forming at the tip of his penis. If this happens, the best may occur at any moment. The position that is best for oral sex (kneeling between his legs, lying sideways, or in the 69 position) depends on your partner’s sensitivity and the structure and flexibility of your lips, tongue, and teeth. Try various techniques to determine what works best for you as a couple.

Lesson 3

Take your partner’s erect penis into your mouth without squeezing your lips around the shaft. Start making circular movements with your head. The penis will move freely, making contact with different surfaces inside your mouth. Pull it out slightly while using your teeth to slow down the pace. This exercise is easier when you are kneeling in front of him or when he lies back and your head is right above his penis. Alternate rotating clockwise and counterclockwise. This playful approach provides immense pleasure and can last a long time.

Lesson 4

Kneel in front of your partner and lift his erect penis so you can reach the testicles with your mouth. Use slow, firm tongue movements to massage the perineum beneath the scrotum, gently gliding your tongue across them and licking the entire penis up to the tip. You can assist with your hands as needed. This technique resembles licking a popsicle. Few men can endure such prolonged stimulation without reaching an intense orgasm. As an option, you can combine straight movements of your tongue with drawing a large figure eight.

Lesson 5

A commonly used technique involves taking your partner’s penis into your mouth without going too deep. We will also address deep throating later. Start by using your tongue to locate the glans. Once you find it, lick the frenulum (the area where the foreskin ends and the skin begins) beneath the glans. Release the penis and repeat the process while holding the shaft with your hand. You can vary this by moving your head side to side as your wet lips wrap around the frenulum. Gentle stimulation of the penis with your hand moving up and down can add more pleasure. You can intersperse several gentle, shallow mouth grabs with occasional strong and deep grabs to the base, or standard vacuum grabs.

Lesson 6

In addition to the previous techniques, there’s one that enhances the orgasm. By blocking the semen channel at the base of the penis with your finger while massaging the shaft with your lips and hand, you can simulate the spasms that occur during ejaculation, prolonging your partner’s pleasure. When you finally allow the semen to escape, the release will be unusually long and intense. It’s incredible how this simple technique can amplify a man’s pleasure.

Lesson 7

For those just starting to practice oral sex, there are a few points to consider. During a man’s orgasm, he often tries to push his penis deeper. However, the average depth of the mouth is only 7.5 – 9 cm, while the average European penis length ranges from 10 to 14 cm. This issue is compounded by the fact that the angle of the penis relative to the throat and airways is 90 degrees during oral sex. Therefore, just before your partner orgasms, lean your head slightly to the side, allowing his penis to enter fully without endangering your airways.

Lesson 8

It is also well known that deep penetration can trigger certain physical reactions. To avoid any discomfort, simply relax your throat and refrain from tensing it during deep penetration. Additionally, you can control the depth by briefly tightly gripping the penis with your lips in a comfortable position, stimulating it solely with your tongue while you catch your breath. The moment of orgasm is the only time during the entire oral game when your partner’s activity can exceed yours. He will begin to imitate the motions typical of regular intercourse, pushing his penis deeper each time. This can be an incredibly intense sexual experience, especially for newcomers. One more warning: do not leave your partner immediately after ejaculation. This can disrupt his pleasure. If swallowing his semen is psychologically uncomfortable for you, simply spit it into a pre-prepared tissue or towel, but do not rush to the bathroom. Keep in mind that semen can be an excellent cosmetic treatment for skin cleansing. With the right attention to each other, you and your partner will soon learn to avoid potential mishaps and bring each other maximum pleasure from oral sex.

Lesson 9

Let’s return to your partner’s testicles. Given their high sensitivity, establishing a certain level of trust between partners is essential for incorporating them into your sexual play. Start with gentle licking of the scrotum. As your partner becomes aroused, you can play with his nipples while stimulating the penis near the base, closer to the testicles. You can also gently roll his testicles deeper into the perineum; many men enjoy this. When your partner fully trusts you, you can take both testicles in your mouth after moistening the scrotum with your wet tongue, ensuring that the hair is damp. This way, clumped hair won’t hinder your tongue’s movements. The appendages of your partner’s testicles can sometimes act as indicators of hidden infections like chlamydia. If they appear unusually swollen and painful to touch, it is a warning sign and a clear reminder to use protection.

Lesson 10

This is a straightforward technique for sexual play, and once you are familiar with the anatomy of the penis, you will find it easy to master. Moisten your lips, wrap them around the glans, and begin gently rotating them side to side along the frenulum. This does not require any special skills or talent, as this is the most sensitive area of the penis. Stimulation of this area can lead to a quick and intense orgasm. It is generally recommended for urgently restoring your partner’s readiness after a previous sexual encounter.

How to Give an Amazing Blowjob: 8 Expert Tips

Find a Comfortable Position
On average, men reach orgasm in three to five minutes, so you don’t need to worry too much about comfort. However, it’s still worth finding a position that both of you enjoy. Generally, it’s easier for a woman to kneel (using a pillow or blanket under her knees if you’re on the floor). The partner can either stand or sit at the edge of the bed to lean back comfortably. An additional advantage of this position is that it offers a good view for the man. To make the experience even more exciting, move closer to a mirror. You can both enjoy the view!
Start Off Right
Most men I’ve talked to don’t like long foreplay. Some even say it makes them feel awkward or ticklish. Of course, you can warm him up before the blowjob, but do it quickly. Try teasing him with your tongue or fingers through his underwear, or touch his penis while asking what he would like. If he’s not fully ready when you take off his clothes, seize the moment. Take his entire member in your mouth and tease him with your tongue until he gets hard (this may be the only chance you have for such a maneuver, so enjoy it!). After he’s erect, slowly lick his penis from the base to the tip.
Master Basic Technique
After foreplay comes the main event, right? First, you need to make his penis wet. For this, slide your mouth up and down his member a few times, pressing your tongue tightly against it. Try to gather and use as much saliva as possible, and don’t worry if it drips messily—this can actually enhance the experience. But watch out for your teeth; they shouldn’t be involved in this process! Now that you’re prepared, start using your hand along with your mouth. Most people’s mouths aren’t big enough to fit an average-sized penis, so your hand will be your best friend. The optimal approach is to use your hand to stimulate the shaft of the penis while your mouth focuses on the tip. Keep in mind that the shaft isn’t as sensitive as other intimate male areas, so don’t be afraid to grip it firmly. The tip, on the other hand, is very sensitive, so a warm, wet mouth is perfect for it. Now for the technique: grip the penis firmly in your hand, bring your lips close to the tip, and imagine that these two parts of your body are connected. Then, begin to move up and down the shaft for several minutes. This is a standard move that you can return to throughout the blowjob.
Pay Attention to the Balls
The scrotum is often neglected, which is unfair. Don’t make this mistake. Once you’re in a rhythm with the basic technique, move on to the next step. Use your free hand to grasp his balls. Remember: they are sensitive, so you need to find the right amount of pressure. Light pressure will just tickle, while too much can cause pain. Tease the scrotum with your fingers while continuing to give the blowjob. Gently pinch the skin between the balls with your thumb and index finger and try to move your fingers from the base of the penis down. Then, use your mouth to tease this area while continuing to stimulate the penis with your hand. Lick the balls, take them into your mouth, and run your tongue between them from the back of the scrotum to the front.
Don’t Forget the Prostate
The most commonly overlooked areas are, of course, the anus and prostate. For many heterosexual men, stimulation in these areas is strictly taboo, which is a shame! However, before venturing into this sacred territory, get explicit permission from your partner. If he’s not up for anal play, try stimulating his perineum instead. This area responds well to pressure—you can use your knuckles for this. If your partner is ready for anal play, the first thing you’ll need is a silicone lubricant. Apply it to your index finger and gently probe the anal opening. A light push is enough to gain entry. If he starts to thrust his hips towards your hand, slowly push your finger deeper. You only need to go a few centimeters inside, then gently move your finger back and forth. Once you’ve mastered this technique, try reaching the golden blowjob standard: one finger in the anus while the other fingers stimulate the balls, and your other hand and mouth focus on the penis. Instant orgasm guaranteed!
Explore Other Techniques
Once you’re comfortable with the basic technique, start experimenting. Different men like different things—find out what excites your partner. Here are a few examples:
- Lick the base of the penis while continuing to stimulate the shaft and tip with your hand.
- Pay special attention to the frenulum—this area is particularly sensitive for many men. Tease it with the tip of your tongue, moving it up and down and side to side, or try sucking on it.
- Continue to stimulate the penis with your hand while only using your lips on the tip.
- Add circular motions with your hand to the basic technique.
- Gently tap the penis with your tongue to give your jaw a little break.
- For a longer break, use your lips, face, and breasts (you can just rub them against the penis).
- Alternatively, alternate between manual and oral stimulation.
- Don’t feel pressured to use all the techniques at once. Start with a couple and ask your partner what he enjoyed, or pay attention to his reactions.
Finish Gracefully
The eternal debate: to swallow or not to swallow? What can I say here? If you truly can’t stand the taste of sperm, keep tissues handy next to the bed to discreetly dispose of it. Another option is to let the sperm drip out onto the penis as you pull it from your mouth. But think carefully about this again. How would you feel if your partner ran off to brush his teeth immediately after oral sex? Sure, genital fluids aren’t grandma’s compote, but we’re talking about a quick gulp of a couple of teaspoons. And tastes do change…
Learn to Love Blowjobs
The key takeaway from this article is that enthusiasm makes for an incredible blowjob. There’s nothing better for your partner than knowing you enjoy his member. An excellent way to express this enthusiasm is to initiate a blowjob. Surprise your man when he just wakes up or walks into the house. Tell him you want to please him while watching a cool series or having dinner at a restaurant. Maintain this mood throughout the process. Moan, make eye contact, and smile. Pull the penis from your mouth and rub it against your body. Tell him how good it feels. You’ll become a blowjob guru when you genuinely love it. And it’s really quite simple: it’s so exciting to completely control someone else’s pleasure.

1614810626 55 P Krasivie Telki Sosut Erotika 56

Exploring a Bold Form of Oral Sex

Irrumation is a type of oral sex characterized by active, deep thrusting of the penis into the partner’s mouth or throat. The main difference between irrumation and regular oral sex is the emphasis on these vigorous, penetrating movements. In irrumation, the male partner takes the dominant role, actively controlling the rhythm and depth of penetration, whereas, in traditional oral sex, the woman typically dictates the pace and depth by sucking and moving her head.

If there is no gag reflex during irrumation, the man can enjoy deep penetration, with the entire penis enveloped by the partner’s mouth. This experience tends to be more exciting for men, as they are active participants, which can lead to heightened pleasure and sexual tension. Furthermore, men can dictate the duration of this type of oral sex.

Consent is crucial, just as with any sexual activity. Some women may dislike the idea of their mouths being compared to vaginas. However, many women derive pleasure from irrumation, especially those who enjoy rough sex and BDSM elements. The enjoyment of such experiences varies from person to person, and if both partners’ desires align, there is no reason to shy away from exploring them.

History of Irrumation

Irrumation was notably practiced in Ancient Rome, where any form of oral sex was viewed as lowly and often reserved for degrading others. It was typically performed with prostitutes to emphasize their perceived inferiority or as a form of punishment, often involving elements of violence.

Types of Irrumation

Irrumation can be categorized into two types: without penetration and with penetration.

Without Penetration: This involves stimulating the penis through active thrusting movements between the partner’s thighs or stomachs. Pre-lubrication of the penis or the area of irrumation can enhance pleasure. This technique is often referred to as “masturbation,” performed without the use of hands.
With Penetration: This type occurs through active thrusting movements of the penis into the mouth and throat of the partner. Alternative names include “throat sex” or “deep throat.” This form of irrumation is often associated with BDSM, as it can involve elements of domination and submission.

Techniques for Irrumation

If both partners are open to exploring irrumation, start by choosing a comfortable position. The woman can lie on her back with a pillow under her head or hang her head off the edge of the bed, positioning the man’s penis directly in front of her mouth. The man should find a position that allows for easy, deep thrusting movements.

It’s crucial to begin with slow and shallow thrusts to gauge comfort levels. Discuss a safe word or gesture in advance to communicate when one partner feels overwhelmed. For instance, the woman can pinch the man as a signal. If she wants deeper penetration, she can push him further by placing her hand on his buttocks.

Men should learn to control their emotions during this act; if the partner seems uncomfortable, he must not insist on continuing. While it may be tempting for men to thrust fully from the start, gradual deepening of penetration helps ensure the receiving partner’s comfort.

Women can also influence the depth of penetration by holding the penis at the base with their hand, which restricts how deep the man can go. During irrumation, if a woman has her hand on the penis, she can also stimulate it simultaneously, adding to the overall pleasure.

When the man begins thrusting, he should focus on moving his hips rather than his upper body. He can incorporate not only thrusting motions but also circular movements, and the woman can turn her head or move it up and down to enhance stimulation.

Conclusion

Irrumation, or deep throat, is a sexual practice that can diversify your sexual repertoire. Some women view it as a variation of BDSM oral sex, while others may feel uncomfortable due to the feeling of being used. Trust is vital; if a woman doubts her partner’s ability to control himself while aroused, feelings of fear and distrust may arise. Open communication about desires and boundaries is essential. By respecting each other’s needs, partners can explore and enjoy the exciting dynamics of irrumation.

10 Cool Techniques for Cunnilingus

Experiment with Different Types of Oral Stimulation: Use lip gliding, licking, and sucking. Regularly change the pressure of your tongue on and around the clitoris with light suction to create intense arousal.
Jelly Tongue: Start with a relaxed and soft tongue. Slowly lick the labia without touching the clitoris, then explore the pubic area and the anus, applying plenty of saliva. Return to the labia and lightly touch the clitoris without increasing the pace. After a 5-second pause, dive into your partner with eagerness.
Butterfly Flutter: Imagine your tongue as a butterfly wing. Lightly touch the inner labia and tickle the clitoris alternately from both sides.
Buzzing Bee: Roll your tongue into a tube shape and intensify the tickling. This technique is useful when your partner is about to climax.
Figure Eight and Zigzag: Move your tongue in a zigzag or figure-eight pattern, alternating pressure from light to strong. Start with a relaxed tongue, then form it into a firm tube.
Pendulum: Move your tongue side to side while keeping it well-moistened. Gradually increase the speed while maintaining a consistent rhythm.
Rolling between the Labia: Wrap your lips around the clitoris and small labia, rolling them up and down and side to side.
Sucker: Treat the clitoris and small labia as if they were a penis and suck on them. Use this technique towards the end when the woman is ready to climax.
Double Orgasm: Simultaneously stimulate the clitoris while using a finger or vibrator on the G-spot, which is found about two finger lengths inside the vagina on the upper wall.
Drill Tongue: Extend your tongue into the vagina and explore various movements, including thrusting, side-to-side motions, and circular movements. This should be done towards the end when the woman is ready to climax.

Cunnilingus: How to Avoid Mistakes

An experienced lover who masters the technique of cunnilingus can bring a woman to orgasm in just 1-2 minutes. Cunnilingus is an excellent foreplay. If you can give a woman pleasure orally, she will be open to any of your propositions—she might perform oral sex, allow you to enter her tight backdoor, swallow your semen, and even learn deep-throat techniques.

Good cunnilingus is the simplest and best way to receive gratitude from a woman who is willing to engage in any sexual experiment!

Many women complain about how men behave during oral sex, so be bold and avoid making mistakes.

1. Impatience and Haste

This is the king of all mistakes. Often, a man will linger around her intimate area for three minutes, ensuring that everything is quite wet, and then quickly rush to penetrate. However, this wetness is usually his saliva, not her lubrication. Moreover, women tend to become aroused more slowly; they might just be starting to feel intense arousal when it’s abruptly interrupted.

This mistake often leads to feelings of dissatisfaction and a spoiled mood. So, take your time—spend as long as your partner needs, which could be half an hour or more.

2. Excessive Intensity

Too much pressure and high-intensity movements can overwhelm sensitive areas. The clitoris and vulva are delicate zones. During cunnilingus, just like with any sexual act, you need to gradually build up the tempo and intensity following this pattern: soft—stronger—retreat. Then repeat: soft—stronger—retreat…

Sometimes a guy tries to “take a big bite,” simultaneously sucking on the clitoris and the outer and inner lips, or even everything at once. This approach can include rubbing against the clitoris while thrusting with the chin against the vaginal opening, shaking the head, performing various sways and rotations, intense licking, and attempts to penetrate.

The sensitive clitoris can quickly lose its arousal and stop responding to stimulation, which can ruin the mood and bring no pleasure.

3. Lack of Grooming

The vulva and clitoris have very delicate mucous membranes, similar to the inside of an eyelid. If a man has stubble or a beard, imagine how uncomfortable and painful it is when hair gets in your eye. This sensation is comparable to having sex with a cactus.

4. Overzealous Sucking

There’s a lot of literature about the clitoris, and many men, having read this, dive in with powerful sucking. However, they often focus solely on the clitoris, neglecting the labia and the clitoral hood.

5. Chatter and Noises

To maintain increasing arousal, a woman needs to be focused on her sensations. Yet, there are often muffled sounds coming from men, like “Mmm… Hmm… Delicious… I could eat you up.” Sometimes a man raises his head, speaks clearly, makes eye contact, and asks for feedback. This can be very distracting and completely disrupt the building tension.

Note

Interestingly, the best cunnilingus might come from a lesbian. Without a penis, she isn’t rushed by a swollen erection. Moreover, she understands her partner’s sensations better, having gone through trials and errors herself, allowing her to provide quality oral pleasure throughout the night. So, if you’re keen on experiencing this type of orgasm, seek a friend for the experience!

Rules for Beginners

Two main rules: don’t stop and don’t slow down!

If your movements are abrupt and intense, the level of arousal quickly diminishes, even leading to loss of sensitivity.

Don’t forget to assist with your fingers—do so gently and carefully, lightly inserting them into her vulva. Avoid stuffing three fingers inside or mimicking the motions of a vigorous thrust.

Create a cycle: light stimulation—bring her to the peak—ease off… Then repeat. After three or four such cycles, when a woman is ready to climax or asks you to penetrate her, hold off for a moment before starting stimulation again—this will have her begging for you to enter her, whether vaginally or anally. You will be able to take her in any position, with any intensity. Due to the overwhelming arousal, she will likely experience a powerful orgasm.

Men who are skilled at cunnilingus can also reach incredible excitement themselves—both the tongue and lips are highly sensitive erogenous zones, and the arousal experienced by the woman will also transfer to the man.

Recap of Mistakes

Don’t linger in one spot; it can irritate and hurt the woman.
Use your fingers, but do so gently and tenderly.
Don’t be lazy—prolong the orgasm through cunnilingus, bringing your partner to the highest level of arousal.

If cunnilingus is done right, a woman will experience a deeper and stronger orgasm than from regular intercourse. Remember, she will surely reward you with unforgettable sex for a well-performed oral act made with care and passion.

Good luck in this exciting endeavor!

1615766975 23 P Porno S Vozbuzhdennimi Devushkami Erotika 25 1024x576

Rules for Cunnilingus for the Super Lover

Every woman adores cunnilingus. The soft, warm, and moist sensations created by tongue caresses evoke intense arousal. Most women achieve orgasm solely from clitoral stimulation. A grateful woman will do anything for a lover who brings her to climax through cunnilingus. Women claim that their orgasms are incomparable.

Those who say they don’t enjoy it simply haven’t experienced excellent cunnilingus.

Taste and Smell for Beginners

If a man feels uneasy about taste and smell, start gradually. Don’t sit down immediately; begin your exploration in the bath or right after a shower. Incorporate treats like whipped cream, fruits, or honey to make the experience enjoyable. Over time, he will find pleasure in this, which can transition into fantastic intercourse afterward.

Long Preparation

As with any sexual activity, begin with preparatory touches. Communicate your intentions and tease her without diving straight in. Kiss her stomach and thighs, moving closer and then pulling away. The longer and more intensely she anticipates oral pleasure, the quicker and stronger the eventual satisfaction will be.

A good warm-up takes time. Keep her on her toes with unpredictable motions, alternating between fast and slow movements. Only when she is trembling and writhing should you start to kiss the clitoris and other genital areas.

Observe Her Reactions

Pay close attention to her responses, her breathing, sounds, and movements. This will help you understand which actions drive her wild. Memorize and repeat those techniques.

Vary Your Movements

Change the nature and rhythm of your movements frequently. Allow the clitoris to rest, as constant stimulation can lead to decreased sensitivity. When you sense that she is approaching orgasm, maintain your rhythm and motions, as altering them might disrupt her climax.

Creative Use of the Tongue

Be imaginative with your tongue. Use soft or firm movements, starting gently as you stroke her clitoris and vulva, then varying the intensity. If you know she gets aroused from a specific movement, focus on that while adjusting the tempo and rhythm.

Alternate between fast and slow tongue motions, while continuously monitoring her reactions.

Lips, Teeth, Nose, and Fingers

In addition to your tongue, utilize your lips, teeth (with caution), the tip of your nose, and fingers. Gently rub her clitoris with your nose while shaking your head side to side. Use your lips to kiss and suck, employing them like a soft brush.

You can insert a finger slightly into her vagina, but avoid vigorous thrusting. Many women enjoy sucking on your fingers while you lick their clitoris.

Endurance Exercise for Your Tongue

Given the active role of the tongue in oral pleasure, it’s crucial to not only perform various movements with it, relying on the external muscles, but also to shape it using the intrinsic muscles. To strengthen these muscles, incorporate the following exercises into your daily routine, either before bed or first thing in the morning:

Tighten the Tongue: Firm up your tongue, making its tip resemble a hard spearhead.
Relax the Tongue: Spread it out flat, transforming it into a “spatula tongue.” Alternate between these two positions for 3 minutes, holding each for 2-3 seconds.
Cup the Tongue: Bend the tip and the sides of your tongue upward, creating a slight dip in the middle, forming an improvised cup shape.
Tube the Tongue: Roll your tongue into a tube shape, bringing the sides together, allowing the tip to protrude between slightly closed lips. Move the tip in and out.
Edge the Tongue: Position the tongue on its side, tilting the back to the left, then to the right. Mastering these last two movements will significantly expand your abilities to stimulate your partner’s genitals, especially during oral sex.

Simple Tongue Training:

Cheeks: Slightly open your mouth and alternately push your tongue into each cheek.
Nose Touch: Reach your nose with the tip of your tongue.
Chin Touch: Touch your chin with the tip of your tongue.
Tooth Cleaning: Glide your tongue along the front surface of your teeth side to side.
Butterfly Wings: Make rapid up and down movements with your tongue while swaying from side to side.
Tongue Bites: Gently bite along the tip to the base of your tongue.

Lip Muscle Training:

Stretching (Flutist’s Warm-Up): Extend your lips forward into a tight tube, then open them as wide as possible.
Rocking: A great exercise that trains both the lips and neck muscles.
Jaw Movement: Move your lower jaw forward and backward.
Scissors: Stretch one lip over the other and vice versa.
Blowing: Puff your lips and then blow a thin whistle.
Lip Massage: Inhale your lips inward and gently nibble on them.

Tongue Kung Fu (Technique with a Dildo):

This exercise is particularly effective for tongue training. Grab a medium-sized dildo and hold it in front of your face as you practice the following:

Butterfly Wings: Rapidly move your tongue up and down.
Slapping Tongue: Flatten your tongue and slap it against the tip.
Bell Tongue: Keep your tongue pointed and move it from side to side.
Hook Tongue: Try to hook the head of the dildo with the sides of your tongue.
Licking Tongue: Flatten your tongue and lick as if enjoying ice cream.